When your sad, angry, hurt or broken, there is pain in that offering. Through your suffering there is a reward and a breakthrough. When you don't think he hears or sees he is ever vigilant. When you are broken, you are more willing to cry out, to break chains, and give up things. When you are angry it blocks and sets up barriers between you and God.
God gave us free will and he wants you to ask him but he will not take that from you. He will wait outside the barrier watching and waiting to reunite with you. He longs for the anger to subside but he doesn't leave, he doesn't forsake you. He keeps His eyes upon you. So, which road will you choose today? Joy, sorrow, anger? God is ever vigilant and has made us for Joy everlasting.